Help with my 3 year old Cavalier, he has massive separation anxiety! Any tips?
Awe my dog does sits by the door when I’m gone too!
Have you tried working with a behaviorist?
I found that the fewer stimulating things in my dog’s environment, the better she does. So when I leave the house, I close the blinds. I also leave her out of her kennel. For her, the kennel seemed to create more anxiety. Leaving her out where she can relax in her bed has helped her drastically.
I’ve had a similar response; my dog responds best by creating a calming environment in the house. I also don’t make a big deal about leaving. I can see he gets anxious when I grab my keys and put shoes on, but I found that if I calmly walk out the door, it works better than making a big fuss.
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Have you tried working with a behaviorist?
yes we have and they recommended not crating him which has helped a lot (she said it was stacking anxieties on top of one another – containment with separation).
@GoHawks that’s a great tip, we put a film in the window so he can’t see out and yes we got rid of his kennel for that reason too! @GooseD yes the keys makes my dog go crazy, one trainer we worked with said to do triggers/cues like getting keys, putting shoes on and then don’t actually leave to train them to not associated those as bad things when you do leave. Thanks for the tips/ideas for dealing with separation anxiety! If anything it’s nice to know I’m not alone and have a community of people to share our experiences with.