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It’s completely normal to feel nervous about boarding your dog for the first time, especially with a rescue like Bentley who’s energetic and a little needy. You’re already on the right track by thinking ahead.
Here are some tips to help make his stay more comfortable:
Bring Familiar Items: Pack a blanket, toy (especially his favorite tug-of-war one if allowed), or an old T-shirt that smells like you. Familiar scents can be very comforting.
Use Calming Treats: These can help ease anxiety, especially if started a day or two before drop-off. Just be sure the facility is okay giving calming treats during his stay.
Burn Off Energy: A long walk or play session right before drop-off can help him settle more easily. If the facility offers extra playtime, that’s worth considering for a high-energy dog like Bentley.
Communicate with the Staff: Let them know he’s a rescue, loves tug-of-war, and might need a little extra attention. The more they know, the better they can care for him.
Consider a Trial Run: If possible, try a short daycare visit or overnight to ease the transition.
Ask for Updates: See if the facility provides photos or check-ins. It can ease your mind while you’re away.
Some dogs take a bit to adjust, but once Bentley realizes it’s a safe, fun place, it’ll likely get easier with each visit. We also have a guide on the best tips to help calm a dog down. Good luck and I hope it’s a great match!
Oh yes, your suspicions are totally valid. Dogs absolutely can get seasonal allergies, just like us! And with it being your Frenchie’s first spring, it makes perfect sense that you’re noticing these new reactions.
What you’re describing (sneezing and rubbing her face after being outside) is super common for pups dealing with pollen allergies. Other signs can include:
– Itchy skin (you might see her licking her paws more than usual)
– Watery eyes
– Redness around her eyes or snout
– Ear infections (yep, those can be allergy-related too)Frenchies, with their smooshy little faces, can actually be more prone to allergy symptoms because of their skin folds and sensitive respiratory systems.
You can try a few things at home to help ease symptoms. When you come inside, wipe her down with a damp cloth or pet-safe wipes to remove pollen from her fur and paws. Wash her blanket more frequently since she’s rubbing her face on it. She might be transferring allergens onto it and then re-exposing herself. Keep windows closed during high pollen days and vacuum regularly to reduce allergens indoors.
We have lots of content about dog allergies for you to check out. Head to our guide on the best dog allergy supplements to help soothe symptoms. Why not take an allergy test to establish what allergen is causing these issues in your pup?
It’s worth chatting with your vet, especially if she’s uncomfortable or you notice symptoms worsening. They can suggest safe allergy meds, allergy shots, or even dog-safe antihistamines. It’s also important to rule out other skin allergies or dog skin problems.
Great question, this topic has definitely stirred up a lot of confusion lately! So, here’s the deal: a few years back, the FDA started investigating a possible link between grain-free diets and a heart condition in dogs called canine dilated cardiomyopathy (DCM). The concern was that some of these diets might be interfering with how dogs process taurine, an amino acid that’s important for heart health. We have a whole article on this issue for more information.
That said, the science is still not settled. No direct cause has been proven, and many dogs have thrived on legume-containing diets for years. Still, if you want to play it safe, it’s smart to look for grain-free kibble that’s lower in legumes and formulated by vets or pet nutritionists, with transparency about their ingredients and testing.
Our team has reviewed the best legume-free and low-legume dog food where you’ll find a selection of our favorite options. We have also reviewed a few grain-free options in our grain-free dog food article.
Of course, if your pup doesn’t have a grain allergy or sensitivity, including healthy grains (like brown rice, oats, or barley) can actually be a good thing! Grain-free isn’t automatically better. It really depends on your dog’s individual needs. Always a good idea to check with your vet, especially if your pup has any health issues.
Buddy sounds like such a sweet dog and a lucky pup to have found you! It’s totally normal for rescue dogs, especially seniors with rough pasts, to be extra clingy as they adjust to feeling safe again. The good news is, you can gently help him build independence while strengthening your bond.
Start with small steps, like encouraging short periods of calm separation using food puzzles or treats tossed a few feet away. Reward him when he’s relaxed on his own to reinforce that independence is a good thing. Creating a cozy “Buddy zone” with comforting items (like a worn t-shirt that smells like you) can also give him a safe, positive space to hang out. We have a guide on crate training and the top crates for dogs with anxiety. Practice short, calm absences with a cue like “I’ll be right back,” gradually increasing the time so he learns it’s no big deal when you’re out of sight.
Giving him mentally stimulating toys or “jobs” during these moments can keep him engaged, and if his anxiety is really intense, talk to your vet about calming aids or calming treats. Most of all, give yourself grace. It’s okay to feel a little drained. You’re doing an amazing job helping him feel safe while encouraging him to grow, and that kind of love makes all the difference.
This is totally understandable, and your pup’s reaction makes a lot of sense! Little kids move fast, make unpredictable noises, and don’t always respect boundaries, even when they’re well-behaved. Since your dog’s already nervous around younger kids, it’s great that you’re thinking ahead and want to work on desensitizing him before the summer chaos hits.
One helpful first step is gradually exposing him to younger kids in low-stress situations. Try visiting parks where little kids are around but not directly interacting with them. This helps him get used to the sounds and energy from a safe distance. Reward him with treats and praise anytime he stays calm. You can also ask a friend with a toddler to do a short, controlled visit. Just have the child sit quietly and toss treats near your dog (without making direct eye contact or approaching), so your pup starts associating little ones with positive experiences.
Since your dog already retreats to his crate or your room, ensure those safe zones are extra cozy with a comfy crate bed and off-limits to the kids when they visit. It’s totally okay if he needs breaks. You might also consider training that builds confidence and teaching him a cue like “go to place” so he knows he can always retreat if he feels overwhelmed.
During the visit, supervise interactions closely and teach the kids to be gentle and calm around him—maybe even turn it into a little “doggie manners” game for them. Over time, with patience and positive exposure, your pup should start feeling more comfortable. And since you’ll be out and about a lot, that’ll give him some good breaks from the packed house, too.
Totally get this. Living on the 5th floor and juggling surprise meetings makes potty breaks tricky! Luckily, there are great indoor and balcony options for your pup:
1) Artificial or real grass pads (like Fresh Patch or Petmaker) work great indoors or outside. Real grass is super intuitive for dogs, while artificial grass is reusable and easy to clean.
2) Balcony potty patches with drainage trays are ideal, just make sure they don’t leak onto neighbors!
3) Pee pad holders (with reusable or disposable pads) are another easy, indoor option.
You can find our favorite products for each in our dog toilet guide.
4) You could also try potty bells or a doggy doorbell to help your pup signal when it’s time to go.
Whichever you pick, introduce it with positive reinforcement and keep it clean daily. A potty training spray might also help. It’s also a good idea to test it out on a non-workday so there’s no pressure during an actual meeting. Hopefully you’ll both crack it in no time!
Yes, several airlines permit non-service dogs to travel in the cabin, provided they meet specific criteria. Typically, this accommodation is for small dogs that can comfortably fit in an airline-approved carrier under the seat in front of you. Each airline has its own policies regarding pet travel, including size and weight restrictions, carrier dimensions, and applicable fees.
We have a guide on flying with your pet and everything you need to consider to make your journey as stress-free as possible. We have also reviewed the best airline-approved carriers.
If your dog is too large to fit under an airplane seat or you’re just not comfortable with cargo travel, there are now pet-first alternatives that go beyond the typical airline experience. K9 Jets is a private jet charter service that allows dogs to fly right in the cabin with their humans—no cargo hold, no separation. Another exciting option is BARK Air, a luxury airline designed entirely around dogs. From spa-like amenities to dog-friendly meals and a stress-free boarding process, your pup gets the VIP treatment alongside you in the cabin. While both services come with a premium price tag, they offer a safe, comfortable, and anxiety-free alternative for pet parents who want the best for their furry travel buddies.
Having a few interactive toys in the backyard is a great way to keep her engaged while you work on your yard and gardens. There are lots of fun options that can provide both physical and mental stimulation without requiring your constant attention.
Treat-dispensing toys are an easy and great choice, especially for dogs who love a challenge. Tough options like a KONG (which you can stuff with peanut butter or treats) or other brain games can keep her busy for quite a while. These toys not only give her something to do, but they also work her brain, which is just as important as physical exercise for a dog that gets bored easily.
If your dog is into fetch, an automatic ball launcher might be a game-changer. With a little training, your dog can learn to drop the ball in herself for endless solo play. It’s a great way to keep her entertained while you focus on gardening.
You might also consider a tether tug toy, which is a bungee-style rope toy that stakes into the ground. Dogs can tug and whip it around on their own, and it springs back when they pull. It’s built for backyard play and especially fun for strong, playful dogs who love a good tug-of-war.
And for those warmer days, a splash pad or kiddie pool can be a blast. A shallow pool with a few floating toys can keep her cool and entertained for ages. Some dogs even love just splashing around or lying in the water to chill out.
If she’s a digger, setting up a DIY digging pit could be a lifesaver for your flower beds. Use a sandbox or a sectioned-off area filled with sand or mulch, and hide a few toys or treats in there. It gives her a designated spot to dig without getting in trouble.
Lastly, another excellent option for outdoor play is a flirt pole, which is kind of like a giant cat toy but for dogs. It’s a long pole with a rope and a toy attached at the end that you can swing around to get your dog running and pouncing. It’s perfect for high-energy dogs because it helps burn off energy fast, and you can still control the play while standing in one spot. Although this requires you to play with her, it’ll satisfy her need to interact with you between tasks in your yard.
This sounds like totally normal behavior for a dog like Tod, especially given his background. If he spent most of his early life indoors or in a limited outdoor space, just relaxing outside might be unfamiliar or even uncomfortable for him. Right now, being inside probably feels safer and more routine.
His weight could definitely be a factor, too. Extra weight can make activity harder and reduce his stamina, even on mild days. Helping him slim down a bit might boost his energy and make the outdoors feel better.
Some dogs are naturally more indoor-oriented, but many can learn to enjoy being outside more with time and positive experiences. Try keeping outdoor sessions short and rewarding. Bring his favorite toy or a special treat, sit with him on a blanket, or give him a stuffed Kong to work on. Instead of using a tie-out, try a long leash so he feels less restricted and more connected to you.
You can also build a routine: a short walk or play session, followed by a bit of outdoor chill time. Keep it low-pressure, and he may start associating the outdoors with fun and relaxation over time.
As for camping, you’ve got time to work up to it. With patience and consistency, he can absolutely get there. You’re doing a great job just paying attention to what he needs.
Ah, great question, and something a lot of pet parents notice and wonder about!
What you’re describing actually sounds pretty normal and is often referred to as “snow nose” or “winter nose.” It’s when a dog’s nose, usually black, fades to a lighter color like brown or pink during the colder months. This tends to happen more in winter because there’s less sunlight, and it’s thought to be linked to reduced melanin production (melanin gives skin and noses their pigment). So yes, you’re totally on the right track. It’s kind of like how some people’s skin changes with the seasons!
It usually isn’t anything to worry about, especially if your dog’s nose is still moist, healthy-looking, and not cracking or getting sore. Some dogs’ noses stay lighter even when the seasons change, while others darken in summer. And it’s not necessarily related to age. It’s more of a seasonal or genetic quirk. Breeds like Golden Retrievers, Labs, Huskies, and some Shepherds are known for this.
That said, if the nose is getting flaky or crusty, or if your pup seems bothered by it (like rubbing it a lot or it’s bleeding), then a vet visit is a good idea. Just to rule out any skin conditions, allergies, or other issues.
Yes, dogs can definitely have those “I don’t like you” moments, just like people. Instant tension between dogs is often due to subtle body language cues, past experiences, or even an unspoken energy mismatch. Some dogs react negatively to certain body postures, scents, or even the way another dog approaches.
Charlie’s stiffened posture and flattened ears suggest discomfort, possibly signaling that he felt threatened or unsure. To help him feel more at ease, try controlled socialization with calm, well-mannered dogs, rewarding positive interactions with tasty treats and praise. Avoid forcing interactions and give him space to observe before engaging. Redirecting his focus with training cues like “watch me” or moving him away from tense situations can also help. If this behavior happens frequently, structured training sessions or working with a behaviorist might offer deeper insight.
Sometimes, dogs just don’t vibe with certain others, and that’s okay. My dog, Bonkers, does this too, and it is unpredictable. But, helping Charlie build confidence and reading his comfort levels will make dog park trips smoother.Lobo’s sudden indoor peeing is likely stress-related due to your new schedule and longer absences. Dogs thrive on routine, and abrupt changes can trigger anxiety, leading to accidents as a coping mechanism. He may be experiencing separation anxiety, marking areas with your scent for comfort, or struggling with an altered potty schedule.
Since dogs pick up on human emotions, your stress from the transition could also be affecting him. To help Lobo adjust, establish a consistent routine, increase his mental and physical stimulation, and consider a dog walker or daycare to break up his alone time.
Providing comforting items, using calming aids, and gradually conditioning him to longer separations may ease his anxiety. Try crate training, too. While this behavior is likely stress-driven, a vet checkup can rule out any medical issues. With patience and consistency, Lobo should regain his reliable potty habits.If your dog breezes through puzzle toys, you might need to level up to more complex options or get creative with DIY solutions. We have a guide on some of the best puzzle toys and interactive toys for you to consider. If those still aren’t enough, DIY puzzles can be a great way to keep a smart dog engaged.
For homemade ideas, try:
– The Towel Roll-Up. Spread kibble or treats across a towel, roll it up, and let your dog unroll it to find the rewards.
– Muffin Tin Puzzle. Place treats in muffin tin cups, cover them all with tennis balls, and let your dog figure out which ones to remove.
– The Box Challenge. Nest smaller boxes inside a larger one, hiding treats in different layers to make your dog work for it.
– Frozen Treasure Hunt. Freeze treats in a block of ice or inside a Kong for a long-lasting challenge.
– Hidden Treat Bottles. Hang plastic bottles on a dowel or rope, fill them with kibble, and let your dog spin or knock them to release the food.If your dog is a real puzzle master, combining multiple challenges into one activity—like hiding a toy inside a wrapped towel inside a box—can add an extra layer of difficulty!
Kevin’s habit of hiding treats and toys is likely instinctual rather than a cause for concern. Dogs naturally hoard high-value items to “save” them for later, a behavior rooted in their wild ancestors. He may also see these items as too special to use immediately or be unsure how to engage with them. If he’s otherwise happy and relaxed, it’s likely just a quirky habit.
You can encourage him to interact with his toys by playing alongside him, making treats more interactive, or offering them more frequently so they feel less rare. If he insists on stashing, giving him a designated spot for his treasures might help. Unless he’s showing distress or refusing to eat, Kevin’s just a collector at heart!
Check out our favorite interactive toys that Kevin is bound to enjoy.
It’s understandable to be concerned when your dog’s usual bathroom routine suddenly changes, but since he seems to be feeling fine, it may not be an emergency just yet. Occasional constipation can happen for a variety of reasons, including diet changes, dehydration, lack of exercise, or even mild stress.
If he’s eating and acting normally, you can try a few simple remedies to help things along. Increasing his water intake by adding a little low-sodium chicken broth to his bowl or offering moisture-rich foods like canned pumpkin (plain, not pie filling) can help soften his stool. Adding a small amount of fiber, such as unsalted green beans or a teaspoon of olive oil, may also help. We have a guide on other foods you can feed a constipated dog. A longer walk or some light playtime can stimulate digestion, and gentle belly massages in circular motions might encourage a bowel movement.
However, if he still hasn’t pooped after 3 days, or if you notice signs like bloating, vomiting, discomfort, or a loss of appetite, it’s best to call your vet. While it could just be a minor case of constipation, there’s always a chance of an underlying issue like a blockage, and it’s better to be safe than sorry. Hopefully, with a little extra hydration and movement, he’ll be back to his regular schedule soon!
